Ana
It’s not about blame. Honestly, it never is. It’s about the dog that won’t look at you. You stand there, holding the treat, the good one, the limited-edition bacon, and the creature just stares at the baseboard like it’s planning a coup. You start thinking you’re the problem. That you’re too loud, too bright, too much. But you’re not. You’re just standing in the wrong light. The friction isn’t malice; it’s just… geometry. We’re all looking at different walls. I spent three hours on that report last night, staring at a spreadsheet that refused to balance, same feeling. Just silence. A refusal to engage. So yeah, not blame. Just… failure of connection.